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them also to psychological unwell. Psychological wellbeing is directly impact to the
human personality and this is one of the negative consequences that impact on
personality of children by over parenting.
3.2 Low Self-esteem and Self-efficiency
Segrin, Woszidlo, Givertz, Bauer & Murphy (2012) also have mentioned high levels
of behavioral control, had a negative relationship with reports of emerging adults’
level of happiness. Most of the times over parented children have not enough
confidence or resilience to face and deal the world. Some overprotective parents
emphasize their children how valuable they are and nobody ever try to hurt them. So,
children develop with sense of entitlement and don’t know the reality of the world.
In situation of parents over involved, children don’t have opportunity for the self-
reflect and have their own positive or negative thoughts. Because of the strict rules of
the parents from the childhood when completing life tasks these children don’t have
capability to run their lives by themselves. They can’t make their own decisions
without help of others and manage the life effectively. Not only that this child doesn’t
know build healthy relationship with the outsider world.
3.3 Low Physical Wellbeing
According to Needham & Austin (2010), over parenting has been linked to a higher
risk of negative mental and physical health concerns such as substance abuse in
emerging adults. Physical health also a part of good personality and children who
face to over parenting some time don’t have high physical wellbeing. Reason for that
is that kind of parents don’t let children to engage in physical activities. They think
physical activities like playing outside can be harm to the children and it can be threat.
The physical activities are important to improve cardiorespiratory and muscular
fitness, bone health and cardiovascular and metabolic health biomarkers of children.
When children don’t have a freedom enjoys these kinds of activities, they easily can
be the victims of negative physical health.
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