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kd.ÍlrKh" kùlrKh" jdKsclrKh" ngysrlrKh iy f.da,ShlrKh jeks
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idïm%odhsl Ôjk rgdfõ isÿ ù we;s fjkialï o ck.yk jHqyfha isÿ ù we;s
fjkialï o ;jÿrg;a fuu iudc úm¾hdi l%shdj,sh ixlS¾K tlla njg m;a lsÍug
fya;= idOl ù we;' fuu wOHhkh ;=<ska újdyh wdY%s;j yev.efiñka mj;sk kj
m%jK;d ms<sn`oj .eUqßka wOHhkh lr we;'
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md¾Ijlrejka f;dard .ekSu ms<sn`o fjkialï iy újdy fj<`ofmd< ms<sn`oj
fjkialï fukau újdy pdß;% .s,syS hdu fjkqjg tl;= ù we;s kj Wm ixialD;sl
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wruqKq lr.ksñka isÿ lrk ,o wOHkfhaoS {d;Ska w;r isÿjk újdy wvq ùu" fhdað;
újdyhka wvq ù hdu;a" fm%au iïnka`o;d u; isÿ jk újdy j¾Okh ùu;a" újdy
m%udoh" mQ¾j ,sx.sl iïnka`o;d j¾Okh ùu" oEjeoafoys wjYH;dj wvq ùu" flakaor
ms<sn`o úYajdih wvq ùu" lmqjdf.a idïm%odhsl ld¾h Nd¾h fjkqjg fhdað; újdyhka
i`oyd fiajd iemhSu fjkqfjka mqj;am;a" wka;¾cd,h jeks udOHh;a fiajdjka imhk
wdh;k;a ìysj we;s nj;a fidhdf.k ;sfí'
4' újdyfhaoS wjOdkh fhduq lrk m%Odk idOl
Fernando (1964) úiska Factors Affecting Marital Selection A Study of Matrimonial
Advertisements by Middle Class Sinhalese kï wOHhkhla isÿlr we;' fuu
wOHhkh i`oyd isxy, yd bx.%Sis mqj;am;aj, m,jQ ux., oekaùï 380la muK
fhdodf.k we;' fuu wOHkfhaoS mqj;am;a oekaùï m,lrk ,o .eyeKq iy msßñ
fomd¾Ijfhkau 79] ish jhi ms<sn`oj i`oyka lr we;s w;r újdy oekaùï m,lrk
,o ldka;djkaf.a idudkH jhi wjqreÿ 28 la o" mqreIhkaf.a idudkH jhi wjqreÿ
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