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iudc jev ueosy;a ùfï l%shdfõos wod< lr .; yels iudcúoHd;aul odhl;ajh
w¾úka f.d*audkaf.a woyia weiqßka lrk ú.%yhla
flfia kuq;a f.d*audka The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life (1959) lD;sh ;=<ska
ñksid rx.k Ys,amsfhl= fuka u fma%laIlhl= f,io ish N+ñldj rÕ olajhs' fuysos
Ys,amshd rx.kfha fhfok úg ksrka;rfhka fm%alaIlhl= isák ksid Tyq by<u
rx.khla oelaùug W;aiql fõ' tmßosu ñksido ksrka;rfhka iudch bosßfha ;ud
fyd| ke;fyd;a iudch wfmalaId lrk udkj .=Kdx.hkaf.ka hqla; wfhl= f,i ish
m%;srEmh ujd mEug iy th wLKavj u mj;ajd f.k hdug W;aiy flf¾'
f.d*audkaf.a woyig wkqj ta ta iudc ikao¾Nhka ;=<os mqoa.,hska rx.kh lrk
;;a;ajhka iy thg wkqremSj mqoa.,hdf.ka bgq úh hq;= heZhs iudch wfmalaId lrk
ld¾hh yd;amiskau tlsfklg fjkia ùu ksid" weh fyda Tyq ta ms<sn| iudch
ks¾jpkh l< wdldrhg u cSj;a ùug ksrka;rfhka W;aiy lsÍfuka iudch kue;s
fõosldj u; rxÕkh olajk mqoa.,hdg bgq lsÍug isÿ jk ld¾h fldgi ixlS¾K fõ'
th rx.k Ys,amSka úiska ;u N=ñldj" kdgH msgm;" we÷ï" fõosldj wdosh ukd
ixl,khlska hq;=j Ndú; lrñka fm%alaIld.drh bosßfha h:d¾;h ksrEmKhg .kakd
jEhu yd iudk nj f.d*audka meyeos,s lrhs'

;jÿrg;a fuls iajNdjh ;ks mqoa.,fhl=g muKla isud fkdlr f.d*audka iudc
lKavdhï fj;go wdfoaY lrk ksid th iudc jev jD;a;slhdf.a ueosy;a ùfï
l%shdj,sh y÷kd .ekSug wvq-jeä jYfhka fhdod .; yelsh' wfkla w;g by; ioyka
wdldrhg fuu mqoa., r`. oelaùu ms<sn`o ixl,amh iudc jev jD;a;slhdf.a
l%shdlrlugo wdfoaY l< yel' jD;a;suh p¾hd O¾u wdfoaY lr .ksñka Tyq ksr;=reju
;u fiajd ,dNshdf.a wfmlaIdjg wkq.; ùug W;aiy orhs' fudyqg wkqj jD;a;Sh iñ;s"
úYaj úoHd, fyda fj<| ix.ï wdos n,m;% u; N+ñldj mj;ajd f.k hk oE i|yd wod<
ld,h ;=< ,nd .kakd mqyqKqj" ks¾udKh lr .kakd m%;srEmh kej; n,m;%h ,nd
.ekSu i|yd Wmldß fõ' tneúka iudc jev jD;a;slhdf.a meje;au i|ydo Tyqf.a
ld¾h fldgi fld;rï ÿrg id¾:lj bgq lrkafkao iy tu.ska f.dv kÕd .;a
m%;srEmh fldf;la kï m%n,o hkak jeo.;a jk nj fmkS hhs'

wfkHdakh .re;ajh mokï fldg f.k fiaajd,dNSka iu. in|;dj mj;ajd f.k
hdug msgm;la yd iudk jQ iqÿiq ú,dYhla Ndú; lsÍu iqÿiqh' th yqfola ldgQka pß;
we;s lsÍug fkdj iaÒridr ióm in|;d mj;ajd f.k hdug fya;=jla fõ' fõosldj
k¿jdg wjYH jkafka hï fiao tmßosu iudc jev jD;a;slhdgo wod< ueosy;a ùu
Wfoid iqÿiq fN!;sl mßirhla ks¾udKh lr .ekSu w;HjYHu fõ' m%;s,dNSkag
myiqfjka m%fõY úh yels ia:dkhla Ndú; lsÍu ksoiqkah' tfuka u idïm%odhsl
iudchla ;=< oßø;dj wju lsÍu jeks wjia:djl iudc jev jD;a;slhd ngysr
mkakfha we÷ï we| m%cdj bosßhg hduo" m%;s,dNSkag fkdf;afrk jd.a ud,djla
mßYS,kh lsÍuo iqÿiq fkfõ' ta wdldrhg k¿jd ndysr wxf.damdx. fhdod f.k ish
pß;hg idOdrKhla bgq lrkafkao" tmßoafoka fiajd,dNSka bosßfha iudc jev
jD;a;slhkago ish ueosy;aúfï l%shdj,sh M,odhs lr .; hq;= nj f.d*audkaf.a kHdh
weiqre lr.ksñka y`ÿkd .; yelsh' jD;a;sh iudc jev l%shdmámdáh foaYsh.; lsÍu
ms<sn`o ixl,amh fuhg losu ksoiqkla f,i fmkjd osh yelsh'

fï whqßka —hï lKavdhula i|yd ish ;;a;ajh ms<sn| m%;srEmhla fyda ks¾jpkhla
mj;ajd f.k hdug wjYH kï th Bg iïnkaO wka;¾ iyfhda.s;dj olajk msßila

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